If it was a private call, why were Trump’s staff listening in? The widow certainly had the right to have others with her “listen in” (words Trump and Kelly used to imply to their base supporters that Rep. Wilson was eavesdropping when the opposite was the truth), including the Sgt.'s mother and whoever else was in the limo at the time. And Wilson was a friend of the family and knew the fallen soldier personally, not that that should make a difference if the widow wanted her representative in Congress with her.
Gen. Kelly has served this country and lost a son in the service as well. Nobody can take away that sacrifice. But to deploy it for this purpose is horrid and he cheapened it himself. It’s not clear to me that Kelly would use his experience and personal feelings as a basis for supporting a military dictatorship in this country since he feels more entitled to power than mere civilians. I suspect he will become just another politician now, using his past service as an excuse to power to advance his personal agenda.