There are certain types of people of low character who blurt out things they believe that most people would say.
And it isn’t that way at all.
A good example is the blonde woman in “Officer and a Gentleman”. She totally ignored the reality of Worley’s desire to get married and said to an astonished and horrified Mayo and Paula that she didn’t want some “Okie from Muskogee”…that she wanted to be the wife of an aviator.
That she wanted to go Overseas…
In both cases they are people trading in emotional language (mother’s love/love of a possible future spouse) and, instead of cloaking it in actual love, rather choose to be “brass tacks” about it.