Sorry it disgusts you. As a lesbian, I have found it to be true. Some Democrats give a damn, others treat us like we’ll vote for them no matter what, as we have no other choice. Don’t know where you live or have lived, but that’s been the reality of my political experience for the last 42 years. They are better now, in the last 5 years, but they sucked big time, nothing but words for us for many years. It was never the right time to push for this bill or that one. How many times have we heard “maybe next congress,” “maybe next year”. Seems MLK Jr. had something to say about that.
And where the hell were they in their messaging when Reagan was elected by claiming “welfare queens” were collecting $150,000 a year when he ran in '80? I saw very little push back on that racist dog whistle. No Democrats were pointing out the racist shit Nixon peddled, and Reagan was peddling. Not in any meaningful way.
Not denying the power of the Civil Rights Act, I am talking how much help we have received as far as non discrimination in jobs, housing, and the amounts of violence experienced for simply being in the 12 states in which I have lived.
Speaking for myself, and my experience and why I won’t join their party. I do vote Democrat most often due to lack of choice, but I abhor their inability to get together and make anything happen.
If your experience has been different, I am ecstatic for you. But you no more speak for all black women than I do al lesbians, and I know several women of color and many gay men who, well, let’s just say, are as disenchanted, as I am.