I’m extremely fortunate. I grew up poor, was homeless for a time in my late teens and slept under an overpass for a month. In my 6th decade now I’ve been able to work my way up to owning several successful companies and now work as an executive in a construction firm.
I work remotely from my own office so
I can listen when things like this happen and I’m working (still an average of 60 hrs a week) but this took me by surprise.
As he went on to repeat what he wrote to his father I realized it was hitting me when suddenly I was balling like a baby…
THIS! This is what we risk losing! The idea that there really IS something bigger than we are, that even if it is getting harder and harder to rise, one still CAN!
I was helped (to stay out of jail) when I was very young by someone that didn’t have any reason to, other than kindness. It was one very pivotal moment where my life could go skidding away perhaps never to fully recover. He wasn’t the only one that ever helped me, either.
Initially I was proud, and a Republican. I BUILT THIS I would say. Then I was laid low again, and again a stranger helped. This time I had the presence of mind to ask why, why did you go though such trouble and yes, expense to help? The answer helped make me a Democrat and Progressive.
‘I help because someone once helped me, and it saved me. When I asked how I could repay them, they told me to help someone else if I ever could, to pay it forward’ was what they told me. I made my mind up right there and then to be that person, to pay it forward.
With no formal education it was sheer force of will and long hard hours of work, but I’ve been able to do that now for several years. As I sat here listening to this immigrant patriot, standing strong in the midst of the maelstrom, I realized that was why I was balling. There WAS someone that thought this way, that honor MATTERS! I’d been getting so hopeless that America just wasn’t up to the challenge anymore.
I hope the republican base still has the capacity for shame, because they need to be ashamed…