As a black woman in her late 50’s I’ll jump in on this. Most of my adult life I’ve censored myself so I wouldn’t sound like an angry black woman. I know it didn’t matter that I had an advance degree and had a director level position in a large corporation. I would be judged and dismissed if I showed what others deemed too much emotion.
She didn’t say it the way they wanted her to say it which is to shut up or speak softly.

