I think you have this precisely backwards. Why should churches control whether anyone gets married? That’s what led to the whole mashup over gay marriage in the first place.
There should be civil marriage, with the state regulating whether people are old enough, unrelated enough, etc. If people then want to have a religious institution bless their marriage, power to them. But the ability to marry should not be a religious issue.
Mrs Von Holst and I have been enjoying a “foursome” in bed with our two miniature pinschers for years now. It’s been wonderful. Although “Cali” does tend to sleep on the pillow above my head.
I hate this argument. There is no equivalency between two people being able to marry regardless of their gender/sex and multiple people marrying. The exclusion of a group from the existing structure of marriage was the issue, not changing the concept of marriage to include more than two individuals. I don’t generally care what people do but am against polygamy on practical grounds (even apart from the power dynamics issues, but let’s assume that there are none and you truly have three+ consenting adults). Divorce, custody, child support, estate issues, taxes all are set up for a two person system and changing all of that would be a monumental task, if not impossible in some cases.